No matter how much momentum and money a candidate has, it's important to at least acknowledge any misconception voters might have and for them to correct it. Unfortunately for Mitt Romney, who is still the frontrunner for the Republican nomination, it's a message he still doesn't get and I hope it comes back to bite him hard.
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Ron Paul acknowledged that voters had the misconception that he couldn't win the general election against President Barack Obama. He blamed myths being perpetrated by media outlets and insisted that polls showed him beating Obama head-to-head in a general election compared to his Republican opponents. At least he was honest in his response.
Newt Gingrich, for his part, wanted people to know about his work on welfare reform and balancing the budget. The misconception is that he could do it quickly, when in reality, it took a while to accomplish.
But then things got a little murky. Neither Romney nor Rick Santorum offered any misconception voters might have of them but insisted they were the best candidates to beat Obama. Although Santorum showed he was thin-skinned at times, at least he wasn't arrogant or dumb enough to offer a response like Romney.
Romney, who had earlier described himself in one word as "resolute", began talking himself and would not offer any misconceptions voters had about his campaign. When King interjected by trying to get him to answer the question, Romney's response was: "You get to ask the questions you want. I get to answer them however I want."
Romney then continued to praise himself insisting that he had the background and the skills to be President of the United States. But he offered no misconception of what voters might have of him heading into next week. In fact, he wouldn't even offer a cop-out response like, "That's a question for voters to answer."
Sure, a cop-out response is weak. But it's a lot more forgivable compared to the arrogant response he provided to King – something Santorum should have pointed out while responding to King's question.
Romney's response showed me that he is not a candidate who holds himself accountable for his actions or words. More importantly, Romney doesn't seem concerned about "changing the way Washington works" – a familiar line we often hear from candidates running for national office but rarely see.
Could you imagine if Obama would have offered a similar response like Romney had he been asked the same question? I would be willing to bet that it wouldn't sit too well with conservatives, nor would it sit well with independents and even a few liberal voters who hold Democrats accountable for their actions.
My guess is that the Romney campaign will be able to diffuse this issue quickly. But if I was a candidate running against Romney, I would play that sound bite over and over again in negative campaign ads to point out how arrogant and out of touch he is with the public. If he's not willing to show a little humility and answer a great question, it makes me wonder how many questions he would dodge if he becomes the next commander-in-chief.
I personally do not think Romney is arrogant but I do think he is a big government liberal just to the right of Obama. With his stance, the Democrat party should be excited that he will get the nomination because he will continue to create more dependency on the government by spending like crazy.
ReplyDeleteIf you want to name call consider this one for Obama: Narcissistic.
Take a look at his actions and the way he carries himself and you’ll begin to understand this diagnosis. His grandiose view of himself and his extreme exaggeration of his accomplishments are one example and when he has said "people faint at my appearances all the time" with an attitude like he expects people to because he is soooooo great. Just count how many times he says “I” instead of “we.” He has convinced himself that he is truly special, entitled, and can only be understood by people of high-status. (This is why he talks down to a lot of people….especially the ones who disagree with him). This is more opinionated but he really doesn’t seem to truly empathize with anyone and it is very sad to me that he doesn’t have any emotional connection/relation to people. Classic narcissism.
I may not be articulating this point well but a member of my family has this personality disorder and it mirrors most of Obama’s personality traits and actions. Please do not take my word for it but if you take some time to understand what narcissism is a light bulb will come on as you listen to him speak and begin to understand. The saddest part about this is that I know deep down he is unhappy and really doesn’t register true emotion which make life very difficult.
You know, Charlie, you make some great points about Obama about being narcissistic. I can also see that in Romney and Newt Gingrich. Only reason I throw those candidates into the mix with that is they're also saying "I" instead of "we" and they have a tendency to talk down to people who disagree with them (although Gingrich I see him more of a sociopath saying one thing while doing the other and then literally trying to tear the person down challenging him on the truth). Would you agree?
DeleteI think everyone has some ego but narcissism is a personality disorder. I can see your point and do agree with you to a certain extent.
DeleteOne of the difficult things about narcissism is that sometimes it is not what someone says but how they say it. With Obama it is extremely clear that whether is be his upbringing or a life event that he has a much higher inflated sense of self-importance than do the other candidates. Actually, than any other president I have seen.
You know when you see a guy driving a huge truck and when he gets out he is 4’ 11”? Some might say he is overcompensating because he is short…..and maybe it is true. What happens with some narcissists is they don’t have confidence in their abilities and experience so they go 180 degrees from that and put up a front that they know more than everyone else. I think this is Obama to a T. Just think about it, what has he accomplished in the ‘real world’? (other than winning popularity contests) I also think that he is so fixated on what he wants, his image of success, and concern over what people think of him that he has lost sight of what is really important and as a result he cannot put the people first. It’s all about him, his ideals, his fantasies of power, his internal jealousy, and overwhelming belief that everyone wants to be just like him.
I am no doctor but there is something really strange about Obama. This might be a bit extreme but I would love to see a doctor analyze his personality and body language. I think many people would be surprised but no one on the left would ever believe it or hear it anyway.